Showing posts with label Home Duties. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Home Duties. Show all posts

Thursday, November 19, 2009

August 31

“Don’t object that your duties are so insignificant; they are to be reckoned of infinite significance, and alone important to you. Were it but the more perfect regulation of your apartments, the sorting away of your clothes and trinkets, the arranging of your papers, - ‘Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might’, and all thy worth and constancy. Much more, if your duties are of evidently higher, wider scope; if you have brothers, sisters, a father, a mother, weigh earnestly what claim does lie upon you, on behalf of each, and consider it as the one thing needful, to pay them more and more honestly and nobly what you owe. What matter how miserable one is, if one can do that? That is the sure and steady disconnection and extinction of whatsoever miseries one has in this world.”

CARLYLE

“Be useful where thou livest, that they may
Both want and wish thy pleasing presence still.
. . . . . . Find out men’s wants and will,
And meet them there. All worldly joys go less
To the one joy of doing kindnesses.”

GEORGE HERBERT

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

February 7

“’I have but done that which it was my duty to do.’ These words bring us another element of heroism – its simplicity. Whatsoever is not simple, whatsoever is affected, boastful, and wilful – covetous – tarnishes, even destroys, the heroic character of a deed; because all three faults spring out of self. On the other hand, wherever you find a perfectly simple, frank, unconscious character, there you have the possibility at least of heroic action. For it is nobler far to do the most commonplace duty ib the household or behind the counter, with a single eye to duty, simply because it must be done – nobler far, I say, than to go out of your way to attempt a brilliant deed with a double mind. . . . Do your duty first; it will be time after that to talk of being heroic. And, therefore, we must seriously warn the young, lest they mistake for heroism and self-sacrifice what is merely pride and self-will, discontent with the relations by which God has bound them, and the circumstances which God has appointed for them. I have known girls think they were doing a fine thing by leaving uncongenial parents, or disagreeable sisters, and cutting out for themselves, as they fancied, a more useful and elevated line of life than mere home duties, while, after all, poor things, they were only, in the name of God, neglecting the command of God to honour their father and mother.”

C. KINGSLEY, from Health and Education

“Each hour has its lesson, and each life;
And if we miss our life we shall not find
Its lesson in another.”

E. H. KING